Jeanne Russell

Believing in Oneself is a Daily Commitment



Posted: Saturday, August 13, 2005

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Believing in Oneself is a Daily Commitment


- by Jeanne Russell
(c) Jeanne Russell - All Rights reserved =====================================

“If you think you can
or you think you can’t -
you’re right!"  Henry Ford

Principle 5 in The Success Principles by Jack Canfield and Janet Switzer is “believe in yourself".  In that chapter Canfield refers to the negative power of the phrase “I can’t"

Remember the story of the little engine that could?  The little engine had to get a huge load up a huge hill.  It seemed impossible but he kept trying and as he tried he said, “I think I can.  I think I can…", until finally he made it.

I often feel like that little engine with one unfortunate difference.  I hear another voice trying to cancel out my “I think I can" refrain.  It is the insidious little voice of the conductor whispering, “No you can’t.  No you can’t".  And her voice sounds an awful lot like mine.

When I decided to quit the rat race and make my living without a job, I expected opposition.  I expected negative voice to be coming from my family and my well meaning friends.   But they all surprised me with their encouragement and support.  I think that part of the reason is because many people secretly share my dream of making a living without a job.  If I succeed then maybe someday they will too.  They also love me and believe in me.

No that voice that says, “You can’t make it," comes from inside me.  I have to work every day to drown out that whisper.  I have to keep my goals front and center and tell myself over and over that “I can!"

I carry a stack of 3" X 5" cards in my purse with my goals written on them stated as if they had already occurred.  An example would be: “I am so excited that my book, Stress and the Single Mom has become an instant best seller and that Jay Leno has invited me to be his guest on the Tonight Show.  (Feb 19, 2006).  I say these affirmations each morning and each night. And whenever I find myself having to wait in line, I whip out my little cards and go over them again. 

I know I will make my dreams come true.  I am already living them out in so many ways but still I must work being positive every day.  It is not as if I can conquer one success principle and then move on to the next.  It is an on-going daily commitment. And it is worth the effort.

Every day my “I can" voice gets clearer and louder.  And every day, that negative little whispering voice is gets fainter and weaker. So I know I am making progress.

I don’t know if I will ever totally silence that insidious conductor but he has definitely been demoted.  I am the conductor now. 

 

 -- Jeanne Russell is a mother writer and entrepreneur, She is founder of www.jeannerussell.com ( a website devoted to self-improvement and success) and also www.stressandthesinglemom.com 


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Jeanne Russell is and entrepreneur, author, and publisher. In 2003 she chucked her job as a government contractor and moved with her young son to the Shenandoah Valley of Virginia determined to make her living without a job. Since then she's lived her life as an exciting journey with ups downs and detours along the way. She wouldn't change a thing. Her websites include:http://www.fengshuitoolkit.com and http://www.shenandoahservices.net.
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